The problem: So you can't do it all yourself -- fine -- but you've got to have someone you trust double-checking with the caterer and the florist, steaming your veil, or making sure the limo company's got directions. Most brides turn to good ol' Mom (or their sister or their maid of honor) to make sure things go as planned on the big day. These folks are usually happy to help in any way they can -- but hey, didn't they come here to party too?
The solution: No matter how worried you are, most wedding-day (and day-before) chores can be trusted to any competent adult, and aren't there a slew of them coming into town just for your wedding? Before you hand your mom or MOH a mega-task list, consider splitting jobs among a larger group of people -- friends, cousins, aunts. They'll be glad to lend a hand (and likely flattered that you asked), and it's a great way to include more people in your celebration. If you're worried about losing track, simply take the to-do list you already have and note who's who next to each task. Check in with each person at some point, then check off the chore from the list.
Another option: Hire a professional wedding coordinator for the final weeks before the wedding. They're experts at making sure those last-minute details get done, and having the extra hands around will help you (and mom) decide what you really want to be in charge of and what you can happily hand off. It's more affordable than you might think -- and really, can you put a price tag on alleviating that kind of stress?
(From MSN Life Style 2007 The Knot Article by Kate Wood)
include but are not limited to:
- Attend Rehearsal to insure trouble-free event day
- Coordinate procession
- Coordinate Actual Ceremony
- Coordinate with pastor, photographer, florist and other related service personnel
We coordinate and assist with:
- Home Parties
- Special Anniversaries / Occasions
- Retirement Parties
- Holiday Parties
- Other milestone occasions
We'll coordinate with caterers & other event personnel so the host / hostess can enjoy the occasion without stressing about the details.